Love and Marriage in our Bazi

                  

Can we predict our love and marriage potentials in our Bazi Chart?



One of the most popular questions often asked when someone asks you to read their Bazi chart or the charts of their families is this.  



Love and marriage is a very complex aspect of any person's life.  To make it successful takes more than luck and timing, it actually takes solid and hard work from both parties involved.


Our Bazi chart is very complex, although it can provide some guidance, these are not "set in stone", there are no guarantees and no definite answers for everyone.


The outcome in one's quest for love and marriage  will still all depend on our decision and commitment and how we would manage our own life conditions once we find "the right person".

 

Some of the common questions asks on this topic are:


~ Will I be able to marry? If yes, when?
- Will I be single for life? 
- Is my current partner/ husband/wife the right one for me?


If you are however interested on the analysis and interpretation on how the aspect of love and marriage is done when reading your bazi chart, here is a simplified  way of how it is done.


1) First is you have to have your Bazi chart. 


To get your Bazi Destiny chart, click here: 
https://bazibz.masteryacademy.com


When you have your Bazi chart, look for your Natal chart as shown below:













 

2) Identify your Daymaster


The heavenly stem on the day pillar would be your Day master, and the earthly branch on the same pillar would be your marriage palace or spouse palace.

The upper row (or Elements) represent your heavenly stems, and the lower row ( Animal astrological signs) represent your earthly branches.

For men and women with the same Daymaster, (example both are of Wu Earth), their spouse's element will be different. 


So if you are male with a Daymaster of Earth (Wu or Ji earth), the element that represents your wife is Water

(Ren or Gui water). For women with a Daymaster of Earth, the element that represents your husband is of Wood.


Refer to the table below for the elements that represent the compatible Spouse for the 5 different Elements of the Daymaster.

3) Determine the Strength of your Daymaster


The concept of how to determine the strength of a Daymaster differs from the perspective of different Metaphysical Masters to this day but for the purpose of our analysis, here are some basic principles that are followed:

1) Determining the strength of a Daymaster is essential to attain a balanced Bazi. A strong Daymaster will favor elements that will weaken its energy and a Weak Daymaster will favor elements that will strengthen its energy. 


2) The most basic way to determine if you have a strong Daymaster is to see whether your Daymaster is supported by the element in the Month branch. Refer to the table below for this: 


For example, in the sample Bazi chart above, the Daymaster is Ren water and the Month Branch is Yang (Wu) Earth (element of Dog). In the cycle of elements, Earth exhausts Water.



On the table above, the elements of Water and Metal would be supportive of a Water daymaster, but neither one appear in the heavenly stem and branch of  our sample chart's day and month pillars. Does this make our sample chart a 'weak' one?


When the month branch is in season or in a supportive season, (cycle of elements) most experts would agree that it is a generally strong daymaster.  If it does not have any of the

in-season or supportive season elements on the month branch, then it can be termed (although not always) as a weak day master.


Once we have determined whether we have a weak or strong daymaster,  we can then be able to identify our favorable and unfavorable elements by referring to the table below:

4) Basic Analysis

If this sample chart is female, we see that she is with the Ren (Yang Water) day master born in Spring (Jia wood)  during the month of Xu (earth element) This makes her a weak daymaster.


Her husband element, which is Earth, is next to her daymaster which indicates that this lady would probably have no difficulty in meeting suitors and getting married. However, the husband may cause her tension and concerns rather than contentment and delight as earth is an unfavorable element to her since she has a weak daymaster. In addition, the marriage palace is Yin ( Tiger) Wood which is another unfavorable element. This may indicate that her marriage might not bring her satisfaction.


So if this lady is a client and asks if she would eventually get married, the answer would be yes ( her potential husband's element can be found in her month branch, but he may have a stronger personality that may be opposing her~ yang earth vs yin earth). The opportunities are there and as always, the decision to marry one's suitors would be a personal choice one has to make.

If  she asks whether the marriage would be a happy one, the answer would be courteously conveyed as "she would have to work hard on it."



4) Going into a more detailed analysis

Another popular question that is commonly asked about relationships is " when will one get married?"


Our Bazi analysis can offer us a peak or an insight as to what our destiny has in store for us regarding this question.


Here is another sample chart (with the year luck pillars) of  a well known personality with a daymaster of Ding Fire: 

















This gentleman with a daymaster of Ding Fire was born in the season of Hai (water) which is not supportive, making it a weak DM.  However, it has the element of Xin metal (which represents his spouse) in the heavenly stem of his month pillar, and also rooted in this day pillar.  This means that this gentlemen will not find it difficult to find a lady to his liking and he will be married if he chooses to.  Notice that his peach blossom animal ( horse) is also present in his year pillar so he will be very attractive to the ladies. 


Although his marriage palace element ( yin earth)  is not supportive,  he has the favorable element of jia ( yang wood) rooted in his month pillar.


As to when this gentleman will marry the "right one", the element of Jia wood enters at the age of 26 to 36 years old in his luck year pillars.  The element of wood feeds and strengthens his daymaster which is fire.

In real life, this gentleman married twice, once at the age of 24 years old. He was widowed at the age of 30 and remarried at the age of 33 years old. He remains married to the same lady to this day at the age of 78 years old. 


The table below shows the "true spouse star" for each daymaster:

The absence of a spouse star, just means that we cannot use this aspect to deduce or read the love and marriage potentials of an individual. It does not mean that an individual is destined to remain single for life. 


This is just a basic way of analyzing the chart. There are more complex analysis that can be done to look into the finer details of one's potentials in love and marriage but for now, hopefully this can help us in attaining some basic answers to our questions. 





References: Feng Shui Insights; Joey Yap Academy
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